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| ---Mere Zaruri Friend--- |
A friend is one to whom one may pour out all the contents of one's heart,
chaff and grain together, knowing that the gentlest of hands will take and
keep what is worth keeping and with a breath of kindness blow the rest away
Today I was just sitting over my chair & enjoying my hot sip of tea with some refreshing music. Just then randomly I got through this beautiful song---->"Har ek friend zaruri hota hai...". And then, this idea suddenly popped in my mind "what's the impact of a friend in one's life "? I thought ki mere dost mere liye kitne zaruri hai.
Just then I realised what my friends did for me. A good friend defines you, supports you, and lets you ascend upward in your life. A friend is one who lets you follow your path; he not only supports you in whatever form it may be. They are the one who will always be there for you whether it's best or worst of moments of your life.
Dost hote hai ki aapke kadam hamesha zameen pr rhe; aasmaan ki unchaaiyo me aapke khwaab kahi jarurat se jyada udaan naa bharne lage . They don't let you get carried away with the mirage of water when there's desert all around.They helps you in building your own oasis in a wary desert. They do help you in achieving those moments you have been striving for and, thereby,make sure that you do usher well in your life. There's a famous Spanish proverb that "Life without a friend is like death without witness".
But, as we know there are always two aspects of a coin;just like any other entity of this materialistic world friendship has its pros & cons too. Just like good friends make one's life carefree, easy & simple; An evil friend is like a sweet poison-a pig in a poke, whose effects are unwary until the final blood is being spilled.An evil friend is like a deep,wet,enigmatic quagmire where the more you try to escape the quickly it engulfs you under its skin.Thereby,finally leading to destruction of one's own self. Hence, it's well said "God defend me from my friends; from my enemies I can defend myself".
So, careful selection of friends is not only important but essential because it determines the course of one's life. It's always good to have few books & few good friends. I do, thereby, consider myself fortunate to be surrounded by a no. of good friends that have helped me from time to time in my growth & development not only as an individual but also as a human being.I have them who make me laugh when I wish to and again, do quietens me when I had too much of it. So, thereby, it's time to devour yourself from evil friends & carefully selection of good friends in future.
So, have few but genuine friends kyunki "Har Acchha Friend Zaruri Hota H".

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